If Life Gives You Amazing People, It’s Because You Deserve It

If life gives you amazing people, it’s because you deserve it, because good things do not fall from the sky for nothing.

With friendship, things happen in the same way as with love: people think they know everything. They think they have a degree in relationships and emotions. But they are unable to read from their partner’s gaze or apathy in their so-called friends for life who stopped trusting them long ago.

Amazing people are the ones who come into your life without warning, and who you never want to leave. The most outstanding people are not by your side by chance, but because you deserve them, because you know very well how much their souls are worth.

If we have people by our side who enrich our lives, it is because we understand how the foundations work that are built of respect and the magic of shared silences.

There are people who are your home

Maybe this is your partner, your family members, your friends, or why not all of them. We all have an emotional home, an emotional map where small stories are traced and where a single language is spoken: that of honest care, of emotions that help us grow and that heal. We must never forget that home, because it is a home that requires a lot of work.

Friendship, just like love, is taken care of every day, and we must take care of its roots so that this bond is strong, dignified and so that it can withstand every storm.

The inhabitants of our personal emotional home are like that rose that The Little Prince cares so much about on his little planet, because he knows it’s unique. Just because it’s his.

Fantastic people can show up by chance. But who stays by your side is something that only time can tell. We can not forget that in every home there are struggles and differences, on every personal map there are scars and footsteps that give life and that shape who we are today.

The love and friendship of its exceptional people define us well, because we share the same stories, because we have walked along the same paths; we know what they are worth and therefore we deserve them too.

Fantastic people and ephemeral people

The first study on the impact of friendship on our health was conducted in 1979 and lasted almost nine years. It was performed in California and something was discovered that we all know today: having a good support system that you can share your experiences, fears, good and bad times with reduces the risk of infections, heart attacks and strokes.

Having fantastic people by our side is synonymous with well-being and health. But positive and truly meaningful relationships in our lives can be counted on the fingers.

People who come and go and souls that last

Thanks to social networks, people have even more begun to base their friendships on common interests. We create groups on Facebook where we can share experiences, dreams and wishes. So many of these friendships are ephemeral or connected to only one specific type of activity or need.

There are friends who come and go, which last as long as an employment contract. Since it is not a requirement that you get along well, there are friendships that simply end.

Amazing people arrive as you continue to grow and get to know yourself better and you realize that you have shaped your own home, that your people are your territory, and to invest in them is to invest in your own life, in your health, and in your destiny.

There are people who usually say “I do not deserve the friends or family I have” , but this is a mistake. We deserve them because we appreciate them, because we care about them, and because we love to have them by our side, just as they are. With all their essence, with all their magic. We deserve to be happy and to learn every day from our amazing people.