How We Like To Talk About Love And Romance

We like to talk about love as we see it on film. To feel it on the skin, to hear that special person say our name with understanding, tenderness and care. We like to know it, live it, plan and become a better person. Because we love stories that make the heart beat an extra beat.

This is how we like to talk about romances. That kind of happy ending – but only that. Just “happy in all his days kiss”, but not the daily aspects. We focus on the beautiful, the magical, the conquest and the courtship. The love we unconsciously seek and desire.

There is nothing more beautiful than a good story about how two people met, fell in love and began their adventure in a relationship. But what happens next? They do not tell us about the daily experiences in pajama pants or without flowers, when hanging out at home or going out shopping together. We do not like to talk so much about this piece because there is no magic. But there is still love.

We all want a happy ending, but how will we get there without all these little steps? The ending is not the first kiss you see in the movies. Nor is it the end of running into each other’s arms or getting engaged or getting married. The end is often when the emotions run out in the sand, even if you rarely see it in the movies.

We like to talk about love but it is much more than we think. People build and work on their happy stories every day. The key to overcoming difficult beginnings is the effort that every human being is willing to make. If each person contributes a lot, the success will ultimately be much greater.

Maybe they do, maybe they do not; sometimes yes, sometimes no. Sometimes love makes us want to cry, we are hurt and doubt, but it must be worth it. We should also talk about this side of love, about listening to the other side of history, the one we do not normally hear.

Happiness can be found in many areas of life, so it would be a mistake to think that it comes only from love. Too many people seek and need romantic love because it feels like they are missing a part of themselves. But remember that we are already complete. Try to add yourself, not complement yourself.

We like to talk about love, which is why we associate happiness with love to such an extent. Encouraged by the hope it brings, it is no wonder we are so idealistic. But the prince and princess in the stories also have an everyday life and face the challenge of sharing their lives together. While all this is happening behind the scenes, we make the mistake of only talking about what we see on stage.

So now we will tell the story of a couple we admire. They still love each other, after the first date, the first kiss, the first time they woke up together. They continued to lie down and think that they were next to the person they had chosen from the heart. They also quarreled. Sometimes they hated each other, or could not find the right word to say. But despite that, they were happy.

Their story did not start well. There were holes in the road and they quarreled, but with a lot of work and affection they managed to overcome this. But we do not end here. We continue to the end. It’s not a happy ending, but it’s a real ending.

The love between them was not always enough. Sometimes someone came into the picture and shot it towards its end. So nothing is happy forever. There are different kinds of love, not just the beginning, or the beautiful parts. There is a whole. a real story that is much more interesting (and yes, sometimes it can be quite boring, too).