Indifference – Looking For Someone Who Does Not Want To Be Found
I have noticed that someone has been waiting for me for a long time. This someone is me. It’s time I gave myself the opportunity to smile and stop chasing after someone who does not want to be anything and only shows indifference.
It is said that the opposite of love is not hatred, but indifference. It is said that it kills affection, that you should not be lazy when it comes to what you love, that indifference is the worst punishment and that it is a great blunder to neglect what we love.
It’s not good to run after someone who already knows where you are. It wears you out, consumes you, destroys you, hurts you… It hurts. But we can not allow a lack of interest to torment us. We are worth much more than we think.
It is said that there is no shortage of time, but a lack of interest, because when people really want something, they find time.
Do not sacrifice yourself for those who do not sacrifice for you; you will only get indifference in return. Someone who truly loves you will not make inquiries that could cause pain or inconvenience in your life.
Stop insisting and knocking on the door that does not want to open for you. Affection cannot stand indifference. They will disagree forever, without the possibility of reconciliation.
Love is not something to pray for, and that is why we must use our dignity, come to the surface and stop expecting miracles of affection to occur.
This means that even if we have bad experiences, even if we feel that we are being exploited, that they have not managed to love us back or that that selfishness reigns among the people around us, we must not give up.
This means that we can find reciprocity and nurture healthy conditions anytime and anywhere. Giving love is always logical; it is not something we share and lose.
What happens is that it is tiring to give a lot and get a little. So the key is not to put all hope and all expectations in one and the same feeling because it can not be matched and makes our lives end up upside down.
What must come will sooner or later do so, but not as a payment for our actions, but rather as a natural situation in life.
There are relationships and friendships that are doomed to fail due to a total lack of gratitude and reciprocity. This is simple: to maintain a vibrant feeling, you need to work for it, pay attention and give it time.
However, we must be careful not to overwhelm ourselves with demands. Is it really a requirement that our partner must be committed to us every second and in every thought? If so, we may need to review our emotional state, work on our needs, and get rid of certain desires and emotional ideas that make up our emotions.
To be happy, we must learn to ignore the people who punish us with indifference and make us question our personal and social value. So we need to consider how we can create emotional distance, how to search for oxygen and count to three when we see them.
We all have different ways of escaping to get some psychological air and thereby welcome our feelings as well as our sensitivity, self-respect and self-esteem.
For this, we must reflect and ignore the indifference of people who express disinterest in our feelings and make us feel supported. By doing this, we are better able to surround ourselves with people who make us perceive the world as a good place.
It is the only way to free ourselves from everything that captivates us, and to give the green light to life and let it surprise us without hurting us. So expect nothing from anyone, but expect everything from yourself, and the rest will come when you least expect it.
